The BDSM Code: 79 Tips to Turn Your Vanilla Sex Life into a Dungeon Full of Fun - Paperback

by Elizabeth Cramer (Author)

Interested in BDSM and a kinky sex life? The problem is, that maybe you're in a committed relationship and can't just go out and find a sub or a Dom to play with. All this sexual revolution going on and you're stuck in a vanilla relationship. Maybe you should have experimented with kink back when you were single, right?

Wrong! If anything, being in a committed relationship is the BEST way to improve your sex lives and reach really exciting peaks that you never thought possible. Think about it: you already have established trust with your partner, you already have their respect and their full attention. Now all you have to do is SHOW them how easy and enjoyable experimenting can be. Don't try to sell it, but show them how much fun the two of you could be having.

You can introduce elements of BDSM, role playing and kink into your "vanilla" bedroom, even if you're thinking right about now, "My partner would never go for that!" What we're going to show you in this book are tips on how to turn your "vanilla relationship" into something that you both can be excited and passionate about - a "dungeon of fun", so to speak. You really can have the sexy and smoldering marriage you always wanted but never thought possible.

Here are some of the "troubleshooting" subjects we will cover in "The BDSM Code"

- Explaining BDSM to someone who doesn't understand

- How to remove the stigma of "abusive" sex

- Why sexual kink is nothing to be afraid or ashamed of

- How to help yourself and your partner confront the most taboo of fears and fantasies

- How to repair a sexless marriage

- How to get over fear of your naked body (or your partner's)

- How to be more dominant if you're naturally shy

- And what to do if your kink or your partner's kink is way over the top and freaky

By the end of the book you're going to feel confident about talking to your partner about sex, fantasies and new ideas. We're going to show you how to do it with class, good taste and above all, respect for the good relationship you have going.