When Lovers Attack: How to Stop Fighting and Get Back to Sex - Paperback

by Seva Kenn (Author)

Falling in love is a priceless gift, but it is not free. As the chemistry of bliss subsides, lovers become less certain of each other. Such unexpected discomfort leaks out as cranky nit picking and lowered sexual enthusiasm. That feels wrong, like an unjustified attack.Attacks, whether subtle or overt, take their toll. Reacting defensively, even to the point of anger, is inevitable. And lovers don't know what to do when that happens.Not knowing is a bigger problem than most realize. Frayed nerves and blood pressure spikes never get soothed or comforted. Further clashes become more frequent than passionate sex. Then the relationship ends. Does it have to be that way? Seva Kenn, founder of LoveandSexMastery.com, doesn't think so. He prescribes simple behavioral changes that can reverse the typical slide into conflict.Through descriptions and sample dialogues, When Lovers Attack introduces:100+ Alternative tips, techniques, and tools15 Provoking don'ts and 15 Defusing dosCommunication that is 1000 times more effectiveHow to nurture physical wellbeing and rekindle sexual interestHoned over twenty years of personal and professional practice, Kenn's techniques change the fate of love and sex within relationships. A partner's cooperation is not required; instead, influence is achieved by modeling confidence and competency. Partners cannot resist.Is tension with your lover, partner, or spouse getting you down? Knowing what to do is the cure. When Lovers Attack gives you options that save time, reduce effort, and feel good. It's in your hands now.